digitalbath: amie-frances: precipice: melsteele:rewbog:caylamarie:thatsnotevenhealthy:
i see myself leaving this in the future.
digitalbath: amie-frances: precipice: melsteele:rewbog:caylamarie:thatsnotevenhealthy:
i see myself leaving this in the future.
The Bureau of Communication - Fill-in-the-blank Correspondence
Surely this has memed before, but it’s awesome.
“In order to explain this phenomena further, it’s worth remembering that all sexual activity has a fantasy element involved. The act is never the act in and of itself; if that were the case, it would become quite absurd in some respects, from the motions involved to the awkwardness of the creaking bedsprings. But it is not just that: there are fantastic qualities associated with it, connected to the imagination: e.g., I look into her eyes and see her soul. Or, this is such a naughty thing we’re doing. Or, this reminds me of this other time which was really good, in which case fantasy is piled on fantasy. We need this component, it is healthy: it is an abstract element which allows a space for thought in a world which if experienced solely through the nerve endings, would never allow thinking in the first place. However, at the same time this element can be warped, if our desires are exclusively trained on trying to turn fantasy into reality.”
Masturbatory props
Nation’s Girlfriends Unveil New Economic Plan: “Let’s Move In Together” (via sharingtime/saramcpherson)
It does just make sense! It totally saves money!
i didn’t think telling people would be as difficult as it is. not telling people would come across as evasive, or in denial. they’ll find out anyway. but it’s just so awkward saying it. makes it more real.
and really, is there anything as self-indulgent as letting someone know the status of your relationship, without them asking? it’s like i put up a huge ‘conversation detour’ sign redirecting traffic to all-about-me town.
so, there’s that. telling people is harder than i expected.
yeah. and trying to avoid it and having it come up later just makes it even weirder.
from joncrowley.
Still one of the best wedding proposal ideas ever. My friend Josh proposed to his long time girlfriend a few years back now via his graff. She said yes.